Hey everyone, today I would like to talk about something that affects all of us; the feelings that come from our hearts. Everyone, I don't care how macho you think you are, has felt or will feel these heart pains sometime in their lives.
The heart has a lot of power over how a person sees his or herself, or how someone acts. I am not talking an actual heart that pumps blood through the body. Rather I am talking about what people refer to as the heart; where all your love comes from. When one is in love the heart jumps for joy and makes the person feel happier than he or she has ever felt. Which I guess by definition suggests that said person would feel like the happiest person in the world. Speaking from experience that is very true. When you are in love you feel invincible because no matter what someone loves you and it gives you strength.
When the heart is in pain there are a lot of negative effects it has on the body and soul. When one's heart is in pain one is devastated. The heart completely takes over and makes it hard for the person to do much of anything aside from being sad. The pain is overwhelming and try as you might to dispel the pain and regain control of yourself you find that you can't... For nothing you do can fix what happened... No the world doesn't end... although it feels like it should end. The world keeps spinning and the sooner that is realized the sooner the broken hearted can get up and try to catch up to where their lives should be. No it isn't easy and yes it will take a lot of time before you feel yourself again. All that can be done is to wait for time to heal your brokenness.
The only thing I can suggest to aid in the healing process is to not be afraid to cry. Crying as I have found out helps relieve some of the pent up anxiety and is perfectly normal. I also find that listening to sad songs (even though it makes you feel worse at the time) really helps because it almost forces you to cry and it also puts your feelings right out in the open for you to examine. If you are religious then trust in God to carry you through. God is the best way, if you believe, to ease your weary soul.
Long story short; the heart is very powerful so take care of yours
Well said, sir.
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